When your other half decides that You..and your Issues are too much
And your watching them walk away
Its not better to stick and stay
Its not better to not want to be free
Scared to be by yourself.
Sometimes its about validation
But then again..if you..Need them to validate
Then you havent quite found your wings yet.
You Spiney..dont need anyone to "validate" who or what you are...your sufficient onto yourself.
If"they" want to walk away..let them.
Why put troubles on top of troubles
You have both hands full..so why deal with those who double deal with you.
You are more than worthy you know.
Just because you are less able..doesnt make you any less valuable as a person.
Dont take on more trouble than you already own.
You dont need any outside validation...you have already paid that price. No person should own you.
Simplify.if they cant handle you..they..are not strong enough for you.
Life is hard enough as a Spiney..why burden your heart and soul .
Be your own validation.
I am stronger now than years ago when i thought I"needed" a person to feel good about myself.
In turn I...am a stronger person able to face the Spiney Martyrdom.
Its just life as a Spiney...all the normal issues as a human..plus pain and suffering creating extraordinary people.
We crack, we break..we put ourselves back together as best we can.
No one else but Spineys would understand the tiredness of ultimately having to stand alone with life and pain.
We are all unique humans living in extraordinary circumstances that normals have a hard time or cant comprehend.
This..dialog is just a slice of a Spineys life and how they cope.
If they wont stand up beside you
You dont need them.
Simplify your life.