When you begin to find your strength to weather deeper and worse storms in your life
When you find that getting back on your feet after a rough patch is easier. All the rough edges have worn away from the broken life it had become and its easier to make your way.
Your stronger and not so prone to castrophising when things go south..or anywhere at all.
Your inner balance re sets the gyroscope and can see whats coming and can put your inner arms out so woops..becomes a sidestep.
The rough edges are not razors cutting your soul to shreds when bad things happen. They are or have settled and created a new foundation..cemented by your new found strength...how strong it is depends on your determination
Thats when healing begins I think
Be strong Spiney