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HathaniHHathani Posts: 3
edited 06/11/2012 - 8:58 AM in Neck Pain: Cervical
I am not sure if this is the right board to ask about her or not. In fact I am even 100% sure this is the person I am trying to find.

The friend I am looking for is Brenda (I do have her full name but will not post it here) and she had neck surgery a couple of months back and was doing very well.

She is a member of a couple of other sites I belong to and we have not heard from her in some weeks and she isn't answering emails or PMs there or here and we are a bit concerned.

Does anyone know her, know of her or have any news about her please as her friends are getting worried and we would like to know how she is.

Thank you, Marg


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  • and doubtful will come back. Some very bad things were said about her that drove her off. The moderators can address that for you.

    Metalneck or Sleepergrl might be able to help you out. They have been talking to her.

    If you read this Brenda you're a pita, but I hope you're ok. ;-) Email me if you want.

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  • We shouldn't judge anyone - after all, this Forum is not only for education but also mutual support, which we all need at times due to our spine issues.
  • For your information.

    I take it that she has not been banned but left.
    Her profile still appears to be up on the site here.

    Thing is she is NOT answering emails either.

    When she went into surgery she mentioned that there was a friend on here who would have the updated information on her and I would very much like to find that person as she might know what is going on.

    The other thing I would like to know is how do I contact the moderators?

    I am very familiar with the site where I met her but do not know how this works here.


    Brenda if you do happen to read this please let me, Hippy or Shy know how you are as we are worried. Thanks
  • dilauroddilauro ConnecticutPosts: 12,303
    My moderator and authority team do not have any information as to why she is not online here.

    We have no control of the activity of any member.

    There was some activity regarding Brenda a little while ago, but that is of personal nature. We do not discuss any personal member situations on the public forums.

    Perhaps you can try the other sites you indicated that you belong to where she had membership to also.

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  • Well, I hope she's okay, wherever she is now. She was always very friendly and helpful to me, and I hope she returns. Best of luck with your recovery from surgery, Brenda.
  • Did you try sending up smoke signals see if she responds?

    I did not see nothing bad said about her so i dont know what the fuss is about, Maybe sometimes a person just needs private time for themself and should be left alone instead of everyone searching for the person,

    Searching from 1 website to another, If she dont respond to someones email would mean she dont want to be bothered, I know thats what i do,

    I get burned out talking about my pain on 1 website, how many websites did she belong to, Way too much for my brain to take in so i say nothing but git-ir-done
    Flexicore ADR 2004 resulting nerve damage l4l5 Fusion 2006 same level, 2009 hardware removal with lami !
    2012 scs implant ,
  • As no-one has heard from her I will say goodbye and thanks for trying to help.
  • I don't know what happened... and truthfully I don't really care. ALL I know is Brenda was always a friend and support throughout my surgery. Sorry to see her go.
    ACDF C4-5 June 23rd, 2011

    Another surgery in the near future. I am 26 years old.

    Current Meds- Norco 7.5/325, Cymbalta 60mg, Gabapentin, Adderall 20mg
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