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What do I do, so tired of being miserable

I have been seeing a Rheumatologist for 2 years now complaining of neck and joint pain accompanied by constant fatigue and headaches. I was referred to that department due to a positive ANA found during bloodtests. In June I went in again with severe neck pain only in the back of my neck specifically at the base of my skull. This is pretty intolerable and debilitating. I just turned 40 in August and have had no injury to have caused any of my issues and pains. An MRI was ordered of my cervical spine and the results are as follows.:

Findings: There is a mild reversal of the normal cervical lordosis centered at C5-6 with very slight retrolisthesis of C5 on C6. Vertebral body heights are preserved. No abnormal marrow signal is seen. The cervical cord maintains normal signal and morphology. Visualized posterior fossa structures are unremarkable. Multilevel degenerative changes will be described below.
C1-2: [No significant spinal canal stenosis.]
C2-3: [No significant spinal canal stenosis.]
C3-4: [No significant spinal canal stenosis.]
C4-5: [Mild disc osteophyte complex slightly eccentric to the right. No significant spinal canal or foraminal stenosis.]
C5-6: [Broad-based disc osteophyte complex moderately narrowing the ventral subarachnoid space and nearly contacting the ventral cord. No cord compression or significan foraminal stenosis.
C6-7: [Minimal disc osteophyte complex centrally without significant spinal canal or foraminal stenosis.]
C7-T1: [Moderate facet degenerative changes. No significant spinal canal or foraminal stenosis.}

I feel helpless and like my doctor doesn't understand anything that I am feeling. I have 4 kids that I am trying to raise and am so tired and impaired that I am having troubles being the mother that I am used to being.


  • RangerRRanger on da rangePosts: 1,033
    hi rachel and welcome.
    Don't be afraid to get at least two more opinions from spine specialists. I never did until others here informed me it's the right thing to do. One of the many pieces of great advice I have absorbed here.
    There is so many avenues to explore as far as pain relief go so be your own advocate, there is a lot to learn, and make your best decision what works for you.
    Take care,
  • Thank you, gonna make some appointments on Monday. I appreciate you taking the time to read my post and respond. Have a wonderful weekend!
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  • I know exactly what you mean about not being the mom you want to be. I have a 23yo- not too worried about him, but I also have a 8 yo, and feel like I am shortchanging him. Sometimes I am so grumpy from pain, and I get mad at him. Poor little guy, I have told him i just dont feel good. But I still don't do as much with him as I wish I could. Guilty mom!
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